My Thoughts

2011-06-23T09:12:00.001-07:00

Wow! Its been quite a while since I have been on here! A lot has happened...

David got laid off.
I got 2 jobs.
David got a job.
I quit one job.
Neither job is/was in photography...odd.
Jake barely passed 7th grade.
I almost killed him.
I decided to hunt for my birth father.
I found him.
Not far from where we left him.
He's amazing!
We are alike in many ways.
We have been to see him twice since I found him in November.
Its been life changing!
Next year Kaylee will be going to kinder!! (And then maybe I will get her blog updated more often!)
How can that be??

There's my time away in a nutshell.

Hopefully I will be back more often!

Halloween 3peat

2010-11-02T05:50:00.000-07:00

Every year our neighborhood has a costume contest right before trick-or-treating on Halloween night.

Our first year in the neighborhood, David and I were Mr. and Mrs. Potatoe Head, we won. Jake was a ninja, he won. Kaylee was a black cat, no win for her.

Last year, I was determined that we would all win. I set out early to make us M&M costumes. We won best family!

This year, I was uninspired until Kaylee modeled some costumes for a friend of mine. The pirate costume was adorable! So, I called a friend of mine at a local theatre and we borrowed lots of pirate garb. We dressed and headed out to the contest. First winner they announced was 'Best Girl...Kaylee' Hooray!! I figured that was the end of our winning. But...the very last price they announced was 'Best Family...The Bowrens' Excellent!!

We have a 3 year winning streak now!

I already have next years costumes in mind...

What Happened to Honesty and Integrity?

2010-10-05T18:11:00.000-07:00

I know that we are 'convicted' for different things. I know that God speaks to each of us differently and about different things. I also know, however, that sins are sins...no matter how big or small they are or how much we try to justify them. I also know that we ALL sin. Hopefully, we try not to, though.

That being said, I have been slapped in the face recently with 'white lies' that my friends have said/done in order to get something for their children. Now, let it be known that I do not think there is such a thing as a white lie. Someone lies and they know they lie...lies are not big or small, they just are. So, these friends have done things like put a fake date on their child's profile so they could have a Facebook page (because it doesn't really matter), let their 12 year old child drive their car (you know, because I was right there with them).

Now, I know these aren't huge matters. I know that the world will not end because a 12 year old has a Facebook page. Here is what I do know. I know that my children watch EVERYTHING I do. I know that they know if I am being an honest person. I know that they know what a lie is and that I expect them to always tell the truth.

What happened to being role models for our children and leading by example? What happened to teaching our children that certain rules are in place for their protection? What happened to telling our children that some things we just have to wait for? What happened to being a parent to our children and not worrying about being their best friend?

Whats the difference between a fake birth date on a profile or on an ID? Just a little white lie, right? What's the difference between bending the rules for driving or drinking. Just a small thing, right?

I just don't understand how parents can justify one thing but not the other.

So, tell me...am I over reacting? Is this a big deal? Do these things matter? Would love to hear your thoughts.

Love My Nook

2010-09-20T13:03:00.000-07:00

I know, I know, I told some of you that I didn't understand why you would have an ereader. Let me just say that I am ok eating those words.

Let me explain how my view changed...

I love to read. I read in the tub, I read in the evenings when there is nothing on TV, I read on a Saturday morning when everyone else is asleep. I love to read.

That said, I hate going to the library. The branch closest to us is housed in the high school. That's a great idea, but doesn't work very well. The public can only go on from 4-9pm. These are not very convienient hours for me. This is homework time, dinner time, prep for the next day time...not library time. If, by chance, I can make it during these hours, the selection is very limited. It is a high school library, after all. So, browsing is not very fun. Yes, I can get online at home, choose my book, have it transferred, yadda yadda, but that's not very fun either.

I love a bookstore. I love to go to Barnes and Noble and look at all the tables. I love to see what's new. I love to.read the jackets of books to see it that book interests me. This tends to cost me a lot of money. When I find a book worth reading I want to buy it right then. I don't have the patience to wait for the paperback version. So, I tend to have a lot of money invested in hardbacks that I only read one time.

Then enter ereaders. I tell people that I don't understand the point...just read a real book. Until I do a bit of research. I decide to research the 2 leading ereaders, Nook and Kindle. I find out that Kindle is supported by Amazon, which I rarely use, and Nook is supported by Barnes and Noble, which I love! I do a bit more research and discover the Nook is compatible with our local library! This means that I can log on to the library at home and download a book to my Nook and read for free! Then, the book will disappear after 3 weeks...just like checking out a physical book from the library. I also discover that ebooks are anywhere from $10 to $15. This is considerably less than the $30 I have been paying for books.

So, I asked for my Nook for Mothers Day and have been loving it ever since. To this point, I have been buying ebooks (which I usually get for free using my Swagbucks, but that is a different post altogether). Today, however, I sat at the computer long enough to figure out how to download from the public library. I just started reading Somewhere Inside, downloaded this morning.

So, all that to say, I changed my view because of the money I can save using an ereader. I chose the Nook because it is compatible with my public library...and I love B&N!

Well, back to my Nook. Have to finish the book before it disappears and heads back to the public library!

If You're Not, You Should!

2010-09-18T16:48:00.001-07:00

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Love a Bargain!

2010-09-11T14:08:00.001-07:00

About a month ago, we had an air conditioner mishap. I discovered that the drain was clogged and drain pan was overflowing when I opened my daughter's closet to get her clothes for the day. There the water was...pouring from the closet light. Ugh! So, after MANY attempts and two a/c companies later (Aramendia in San Antonio rocks, btw...but that's another post all together), we figured out what the problem was and had it fixed. Needless to say, the light was ruined. So, we took the ruined light out and let things air out. A month later, time to put a new light in. I head over to the chain home improvement store (*ahem* Lowes *cough*) to purchase one. Well, the bargain hunter that I am finds out that I can get 1 light for $20 or 6 for $40. Doesn't take a rocket scientist...I go for the 6! Now, I have the closet light fixed and the 2 outdated lights in the hall updated too! So excited!

Hall Light Before:

Hall Light After:

Technology is Amazing

2010-09-10T18:42:00.001-07:00

Here I sit, with my fairly new Droid x, posting to my blog for the world to read. It is amazing to me that 5 years ago I had barely heard of a blog and now I don't even have to be sitting at my computer to make a post. I'm sure this means I will be posting much more often...not sure if that's good or bad for those of you that drop by every so often. ;-)

Have You Tried This?

2010-06-29T06:07:00.000-07:00

I think I am now addicted!

You know how I love free stuff!

Click the banner and check it out for yourself.

Bathroom Remodel

2010-06-19T16:36:00.001-07:00

BEFORE:

AFTER:

Can't. Keep. Up...

2010-05-26T16:46:00.000-07:00

Wow! It seems as though I can't keep up with myself!

I recently started a new part-time job. I LOVE IT! However, big chunks of my day are now accounted for. Just when I was getting back on the blogging bandwagon, I fell of again.

I will be back. I promise. Just as soon as I figure out how to manage this thing called life!

I'm a Cheap Date

2010-04-16T09:44:00.000-07:00

If you know me, you know that I love a bargain!!!

I recently found this site...

which lead me to this site...

Also, I joined Swagbucks. Not really sure how it works, but someone said, 'Free Starbucks', so I was all over it!

Team Tabb Turns One!

2010-04-10T11:59:00.000-07:00

Landon, Logan, Leila

Can you believe it? Those precious babies are a year old today!

It seems like just yesterday that we were keeping Jennifer occupied while she was on bedrest and making work schedules for people to come in and help with the newborns. But alas, the babies have reached the one year milestone!

This Saturday, the family will have a time of celebration...for the QUADS!

Bless you, Team Tabb.

Lest We Forget...

2010-04-09T11:55:00.000-07:00

I just had the privilege of watching and photographing a soldier come home to his family. What a precious time as his wife and 4 kids ran and hugged and kissed on him.

I stood and looked thru my teary eye as everyone loved on him and complete strangers came up and shook his hand and thanked him for his service to our country.

Please take a few moments and pray for the soldiers. While we go about our grocery shopping and hauling of kids to and fro, families are being torn apart. Men and women are getting on airplanes all across this country to fight a war to keep us safe.

Pray. Now.

Lest We Forget...there is still a war going on...

I was Green before Green was Cool!

2010-04-08T14:35:00.000-07:00

As you know, Christine called me out on her blog. The funny thing was, I sent her a text when I read the post and gave her a hard time for doing so.

We chatted and laughed (totally LOVE her!).

The more we chatted, the more I remembered...

She was telling me about how the disgusting composting potty thing worked...'blah, blah, blah...seat with a bucket underneath...blah, blah, blah...carry it out to the composting pile when it's full and dump it...blah, blah, blah...' (she sounds like that, you know)

My response...'Holy crap, Christine! I was green before green was cool! When we were young, we would take road trips. My parents (*ahem* Dad) hated to stop for us to pee! They were in the restaurant business and ALWAYS bought pickles in 5 gallon buckets for the restaurant (you know, like the orange ones you can now purchase at Home Depot). When they were empty, they would bring them home for our next road trip. Instead of stopping, we would have to pee in those. Then, when we did stop, we would dump the contents on some plant in the middle of no where.'

Composting at it's finest!

I was Green before Green was cool!

(Btw, I also mentioned to Christine in that same conversation that I would NOT be stopping by to enjoy a fresh, home-grown salad!)

If I Wasn't So Busy...

2010-04-02T13:11:00.000-07:00

I would head down and kick her butt!!!

My crunchy-granola college friend, Christine, literally just called me out on her blog!

That's ok, I know she's totally going to hell for getting that new tat!

Easter Egg Craft

2010-03-17T13:26:00.000-07:00

I am the coordinator of our neighborhood Easter Party. Every year we do a craft, decorate eggs, decorate cookies and hunt for eggs.

Last year, I thought I found the perfect egg coloring activity. It ended up being a HUGE mess!

This year, I am using this activity. I just had my children be my guinea pigs and it worked perfectly!

I think this activity will be a huge hint with children and parents alike.

Wow! Where the Heck have You Been?

2010-03-15T14:35:00.000-07:00

Well, obviously not here...

Nothing has made me particularly over joyed...

or mad...

lately.

Ho-hum life makes for boring blogging!

Please don't leave, I will be back as soon as my emotions swerve out of control!

Team Tabb Update

2010-02-01T15:38:00.000-08:00

(yup, stole this image off of FB too!)

I recently got to spend a bit of time with Team Tabb! So fun!

They have now reached 9 months old.

They are eating solid food (while I was there, they went through 3 bowls of cereal/fruit).

They are HUGE!

I am so proud of this family I could bust!

HomeSchooling Dilemma

2010-01-29T15:28:00.000-08:00

As you probably know, I homeschooled Jake for 4th and 5th grades. Although I loved it very much, I was feeling really burnt out towards the end of last year. For many reasons, we all decided for Jake to go back to public school for Middle School.

I have regretted that decision since about September...

We decided that since we started the year, we need to finish it. Everyday I wonder if we made the right choice.

Jake is a C/D student (he comes by that naturally). He probably always will be. He struggles DAILY with his grades. He learns concepts at a slower pace than the 'norm'. I think I could slow things down for him to make sure he grasps the concepts better.

However, Jake LOVES school. He loves being with the kids. He loves his teachers and classes. He loves taking Drama as an elective.

My heart is torn. It is time for me to be making decisions for next year. I need to decide if he will remain where he is or go back to homeschooling. My heart is torn.

Suggestions?

What? A Republican?

2010-01-27T15:21:00.000-08:00

I will always remember, on my 40th birthday, a Republican was elected in Massachusetts!

Holy hooch!!!

09 Rewind...

2010-01-26T14:52:00.000-08:00

It has been a crazy long time since I have been on here!

I need to start by going back to '09 a bit.

I promised photos of the Carpenter Reunion and never posted those...so here are a few photos from a fabulous Thanksgiving reunion.

First Cousins (3 are missing)

Cousins Kids (all present!)

We had a fantastic time catching up with one another! We hope that it is not another 10 years before we get together again.

The 2nd part of '09 rewind is an update on Miche.

One of the reasons I could not find my way to my blog in December was because Miche Girls were VERY busy! We had our best month ever! Thanks so much to those who sent business our way. We appreciate you!

'09 Rewind, Part 3 concerns my brother.

Yup, hell must've frozen in December, because, after 10 years, my brother came to visit!

I love my brother TONS! I have great memories of him as a kid. However, I do find it hard to hold a conversation with him. He has such an interesting personality and it is a bit hard to connect with him. He is hilarious, though and I find that part of him very interesting! He and my Kaylee seemed to hit it off quite well!

Also, in December '09, we celebrated 3 years of having Kaylee in our family. We had a quiet celebration at our favorite Chinese restaurant.

Well, I think I have brought you up to 2010 now. Can't wait to see what this year has in store!

Happy New Year

2010-01-04T10:34:00.001-08:00

It's been awhile since I have been here.

Crazy, busy holiday season.

Lots to catch up on...

but for now...

Happy New Year!

Christmas Card 09

2009-12-12T21:24:00.000-08:00

I promised I would show you this years Christmas Card.

I am quite proud. I think it is the best one I have ever designed.

You have to picture it as an accordian card. When folded it has 5 panels.

Here is the greeting side and the back (very right panel).

Here is the updates side and the front (very right panel).

I SSOOO love my job. Thanks for this years fantastic images, Suzanne!

Christmas Pictures 09

2009-12-04T21:03:00.000-08:00

The holidays have rolled around again...

which means annual picture taking of my kids at Love Stories for the Christmas card.

Now, I get excited about my cards every year...but I think this year beats all!

Can't wait to send them out!

In the meantime, here is a little teaser...

Check back soon to see the finished Christmas Card. Its precious!

Need a Fabulous Christmas Present?

2009-12-01T21:00:00.000-08:00

Now that December has rolled around, you are probably starting to think about Christmas.

I just want to take a moment to remind you of the fabulous bags that I have come to love. Miche Bags are perfect for any one in your life that carries a purse.

Please contact me at Miche Girls and I would be glad to talk to you about the bag. I would love to help you choose the perfect new bag and shells for someone on your Christmas list!

Thanksgiving 09

2009-11-26T15:43:00.000-08:00

I am so excited about Thanksgiving this year.

I am headed to El Paso (no, that's not the exciting part)...

the exciting part is who is waiting there for us. There are 9 grandchildren and 7 will be together this Thanksgiving (yeah, couldn't get the boys to come back...sticks in the mud!).

The last time any of us were together was when my 11 year old son was 1! 10 years...and then only 5 of use were together.

So excited! Pictures will be up when I get back.

Have a Blessed Thanksgiving with your loved ones!

New Window Seat Cushion

2009-11-24T20:36:00.000-08:00

As I have said before, the kitchen remodel is postponed for quite awhile. I don't want to do it half way and to do all that I want done, we are going to have to save for quite awhile.

So, in an effort to keep myself from feeling like none of the projects are getting done around the house, I am trying to finish the little things.

I put new sheers up in the entryway quite a while ago. I touched up the paint and removed the ugly blinds that were covering the beautiful windows. I did these things probably about 10-14 months ago. The last thing to do in the entryway was to replace the HORRIBLE window seat cushion. It was BBBAAAADDDDD!!!

Now, my entryway is open to the dining room and living room. The dining room is maroon and chocolate brown and the living room is ice blue and chocolate brown. The entryway had to somehow tie everything together.

I was at Hobby Lobby in October purchasing the material for the Halloween costumes. They had their upholstery fabric on sale 40% off. I thought I would just stroll thru...and there is was...the PERFECT fabric to tie everything together! I was so excited!

So, I have now replaced the old, faded, terribly worn and ugly window seat cushion with a beautiful one that a friend from church made for me. Then, I found some throw pillows on sale at Pier One Imports and *viola*!

Beautiful!

Wild Olive Tee Winner

2009-11-21T09:51:00.000-08:00

I just won this giveaway! A Wild Olive Tee!! I am so excited! Those 3 precious girls picked my name out of the hat!

So cool!

I think I will be using it as a Christmas gift!

Thanks Michelle!

Howard Payne Homecoming 2009

2009-11-08T14:22:00.000-08:00

As many of you know, I went to a small Baptist university. I loved every single minute of it! Could not have gone to a school that suited me better.

Well, I had not been back for Homecoming in YEARS...(some of my friends said that the last time I was back, I was showing sonogram pictures of my now 11 year old son!)

So, I decided to pack up the kids and go!

So much fun...and now I think I have 2 future yellowjackets on my hands!

and the 'Best Family' Award goes to...

2009-11-05T14:18:00.000-08:00

You guessed it!

US!

We won!

Now I am taking thoughts for next year. We need a theme...thoughts?

Formula Check Giveaway

2009-11-01T09:00:00.000-08:00

As you know, I have some precious friends that I call Team Tabb!

Well, she took the babies in for their 6 month check-up (I KNOW!) recently. After some blood work, the doctor decided to change the formula that the babies were on. So...

Team Tabb asked that I do a blog giveaway and let some other families benefit from their formula checks. I have quite a few, so I will do a few giveaways for this posting.

I have:

2 $5 checks for any Enfamil Formula

$2 for Enfamil Restfull

$4/$5 for Enfamil Premium

$1/$2 for Nestle Good Start

Once I have received the comments, I will group them into which formula you are interested in and draw randomly from those winners.

So, here are the rules...

1. Leave a comment to be entered into the drawing. Be sure to tell me which checks you are interested in and your contact information.

2. Follow this blog and leave me a comment for another entry into the drawing.

3. Follow 'Miche Girls' on Facebook. (I know, cheap shot, but gotta give my business some lovin') then leave a comment for another entry into the drawing.

I will leave the contest open until November 15th at midnight and then my lovely assistant will draw the winners for me!

Happy Halloween

2009-10-31T15:13:00.000-07:00

Here are the finished products.

I will let you know if any of us won the neighborhood costume contest!

Wordless Wednesday - Spurs Season Opener!!!

2009-10-28T06:56:00.000-07:00

Check out my girl rootin' on her team!

Costumes are shaping up!

2009-10-25T12:56:00.000-07:00

So, I cannot tell if any of your guesses from my last post were correct...

However, I can give hint number 2...

This is also part of our costume...

Any guesses?

Trick or Treat!

2009-10-23T12:40:00.000-07:00

So, last year 3 of our family won the neighborhood costume party.

David and I were Mr. and Mrs. Potatoe Head.

Jake was a pirate.

Kaylee was a kitty...she lost to a very cute Bam-Bam!

So now, the pressure is on! We have to ALL FOUR win! I know, I do it to myself, but I am not one to let a good challenge go unmet!

I am not ready to disclose the super confidential costume information as of yet, but I will give a few hints between now and Halloween.

So, here is hint number one...

Any guesses on why I chose these colors for our halloween costumes??

Isaiah 61:1-2

2009-10-20T09:20:00.000-07:00

Have you read this lately?

The Spirit of the Sovereign Lord is on me, because the Lord has anointed me to preach good news to the poor. He has sent me to bind up the brokenhearted, to proclaim freedom for the captives and release from darkness for the prisoners, to proclaim the year of the Lord's favor and the day of vengeance of our God, to comfort all who mourn...

This verse was presented in church in conjunction with our stewardship campaign. In the spirit of 'give so these things can be done'.

I get that, I really do...but it made me question...

If I give to my local church, do these things REALLY happen? I mean, most of the money given to the local church stays in the local church. It is used for electricity and salaries and new music for the choir and programs for our children. Things that some might deem necessary...

Is it really used to preach good news to the poor, bind up the brokenhearted, proclaim freedom for the captives and comfort all who mourn?

I guess some would say so because we have programs in place where some of these things are happening that some of this money might find it's way to...

It just made me question...

Is my money being given and used the way God would want it to be? Should it be given to a different place? Once given, no matter the place, should it be used differently?

Are we being good stewards...in the giving and the receiving...

My Step-Sister is Back!

2009-10-18T15:42:00.000-07:00

Many of you know I super-puffy heart LOVE Facebook! Yes, I was dragging my feet to join...couldn't figure out why I needed to. Many friends told me how great it was and I just refused to listen.

Then, my mother called.

She told me that she had found my step-sister on Facebook...she thought. She wasn't sure because my step-sister was using a different last name. Her mother's maiden name to be exact.

So, I googled my step-sister and find her Facebook profile. It was her and she was using her mother's maiden name as her last name. I wanted to leave a comment but I couldn't unless I join Facebook, so I joined. Yup, that's the reason I finally broke down!

There has been A LOT of water under the bridge between my dad (step, but for 35 years, so dad) and my step-sister. A LOT!!! It has been fantastic that Facebook has opened up the lines of communication between the members of our family.

It started that my step-sister would ask me about a scenario that her mother had described to her, I would ask dad his side and then relay that back. It is interesting how the same scenario can have so many different sides! My dad wasn't too sure about these stories being dredged up again, but I explained that I thought he owed it to everyone involved to re-tell these stories...especially if my step sister was ready to hear the other side...not just her mother's side.

So, we told stories back and forth for the better part of 6 months.

Dad complaining the whole time.

Then, one day, my mother called me. She had made plans for she and my dad to go visit my step-sister. We are talking after YEARS of not seeing or talking to each other. She didn't know how to tell dad. Afraid he would be very upset. She finally told him and he was a bit put out, but he got over it.

So, they went, met grandkids they had never met, reconnected with my step-brother and sister and had a great time!

Even with all the grandkids, Jake is the lone boy!

When they returned, I asked dad if he was now ok with me contacting my step-sister via Facebook and he teared up and gave me a hug. I think that answers my question!

Hoax??

2009-10-18T12:39:00.001-07:00

Really?? What a shocker that the Balloon Boy was a hoax.

I knew I smelled fraud!

Kitchen Remodel on Hold

2009-10-15T15:30:00.000-07:00

Well, I told you recently that I wanted to remodel my kitchen.

It is bad...I mean, formica hell bad!

I had a few remodeling companies come in and give me quotes to gut and re-do. I thought they were actually quite reasonable.

So, I called the bank to talk about a home improvement loan. OUCH! To get the amount of money we need to do what we want would have a payment of $1000 a month! Holy Cow! That's another house payment!

So, we will need to be waiting and saving some cash.

My husband and I did agree that while we are waiting, we can do some of the little projects...like the window seat cushion in the entryway and the downstairs bathroom. Things that will make me feel like there is progress being made.

Keep watching to see the upgrades!

Baffled...

2009-10-13T18:28:00.000-07:00

I know that I am a few days late but...

would anyone care to tell me how/why Obama won the Nobel Peace Prize??

Now, before you go all 'hope for change' on me, let me remind you of the prize definition as laid out in Nobel's will:

"one part to the person who shall have done the most or the best work for fraternity between nations, for the abolition or reduction of standing armies and for the holding and promotion of peace congresses."

Did you see that?? The one who shall have done the most or the best work...

Ummm....what has Obama done?? He has talked, but what has he DONE?

Not only that, but the nominations were due by February 1st. Do that math...that was only 10 days into his presidency! He certainly hadn't done anything at that point which was worthy of receiving the Peace Prize! And it couldnt have been for his work before presidency because no one knew him!!!

I just don't get it...do you?

New Business Cards

2009-10-12T15:15:00.000-07:00

I recently won a blog giveaway.

Believe it or not, it is one that I did not bog about! However, I wanted to tell you about it now because the service was great as was the final product!

I won 500 free business cards from UPrinting.com.

So, I designed a card in photoshop and uploaded my file.

I received a huge box just a few days later!

I love the final product!

What a great prize to win for a company that is just starting out!

September Ended with a BANG!

2009-10-09T14:16:00.000-07:00

The last week of September, 2009 will be one my family writes down in the history books!

Last Monday, Jake was pushed down at the bus stop and broke his wrist!

Then, Wednesday night at church, I parked in the street, like I always do...except this time, I forgot to feed the meter (we got there at 430 and the meters run until 6pm). So, I came out of church at 830pm with a nice parking ticket stuck to my front windsheild.

As we are driving home from church, Jake keeps saying, 'I feel weird'. I kept asking him what that meant, but he couldn't put his finger on it. Well, he woke up Thursday morning with fever...stayed home Thursday and Friday.

Saturday, he has enough energy to go to his acting class. David takes him to class and I am to pick him up and take the kids to my mothers in Austin. Well, I get about 5 miles from home, to one of the busiest intersections in town, and rear-end someone. Yup! In my new truck! You know, the one I have made one payment on and that has now been smashed twice! Ugh! The poor kid that I slammed into had never been in an accident before.

So, we are hoping for a better October! Can't get worse at this point!

Now I am driving my father-in-laws truck (thanks!) until I get my truck back!

Miche Big Bag Inside

2009-10-06T14:03:00.000-07:00

I have been asked a few times to show the inside of the new Miche Big Bag, so here it is...

The pictures DO NOT do it justice. I snapped these quickly for people to see, but the photos are by no means professional! Just believe me when I say it is spacious and organized and beautiful!

The dimensions of the bag are 15 side to side, 12 tall and 6 deep.

Let me know if you are interested in knowing more about the Big Bag or any other Miche Products. You can see all the products I have in stock at my Miche Girls website.

Joey Purse Organizer Giveaway

2009-10-06T06:06:00.000-07:00

At Helping Mommys Win, she is giving away a Joey Purse Organizer.

Wouldn't this be a great addition to the Miche Big Bag!

Go check it out! Great stuff!

The Big Bag is here!

2009-10-02T21:03:00.000-07:00

As you know, I am a Miche Bag Representative.

They have been making a great small bag for about 3 years.

Many clients have been asking for a big bag. The company listened and it is FINALLY HERE!

And a beauty too, I might add!

It will make a great slouchy purse, computer bag or diaper bag!

So cute! What do you think?

To see this bag and other Miche products, go to my Miche Girls website.

Home Depot Giveaway

2009-09-26T19:37:00.000-07:00

You know I love a giveaway...

You know I want to renovate my kitchen...

So I had to enter the Home Depot Giveaway that Joyful Reviews and Giveaways is having...

If you're interested, hop on over and leave a comment...

If you're not interested, hop on over, leave a comment and give the giftcard to me if you win :)

Education Update

2009-09-25T14:11:00.000-07:00

Well, I met some of Jake's teachers at 'Pastries for Parents' this past Thursday.

I will say, this was quite a relief.

We spoke with his math teacher (Jake has a terrible time in this subject) and his reading teacher (whom I was having a terrible time with). We got to talk about a few 'issues' and I feel much better!

I have a parent-teacher conference this coming Monday to try to iron out some more details concerning Jake and his education.

Similac Check Giveaway

2009-09-22T21:40:00.000-07:00

I recently won a formula check giveaway.

I entered so I could give the checks to Team Tabb. I gave her the checks for Nestle Good Start - the formula that 2 of the babies take (one baby takes Elecare - super expensive stuff, if you know of a way to get this at a better price, I know the team would appreciate the help)

Anyway, I digress...

I have tried to give this $5 Similac check to a few new moms I know, but no takers.

So..that brings me to this giveaway...

I would like to pass on this Similac money to someone else that can use it. Maybe that someone is you, maybe you know someone who is in need. I just want it to go to someone who can and will use it...nothing like have $5 and not being able to give it away!

So, if you would like to have it...for you or someone else...here is how to get a chance to win it. Please leave a comment on this post. Tell me why you are interested in having it for yourself or the person you would choose to give it to and why.

This contest will run until midnight on Monday, September 28th. At that time, I will have one of my kids be my random number generator and *voila* I will have a winner!

School is a Whirlwind

2009-09-20T20:52:00.000-07:00

As you probably know, I felt that Jake should go to public school this year. This decision was made about March of last year and so we worked towards that goal.

Well, school has only been in 3 weeks and I cannot count the number of times I have said in my head, 'I should be doing this myself!'

Now, that being said, I do not know if this is just because he has only been in school for 3 weeks and things are still new or if I really should be doing it myself...probably a little of both. My friends tell me that it is a Middle School thing - the transition is hard no matter the background. Another thing that makes this difficult is that I am an 'if you start it, you finish it' kinda girl, so...we started it and we gotta finish it!

Let me tell you a bit about the frustration.

I CANNOT read minds...shocker, I know! If you let me know what needs to be done with my son and his education, I will be all over it...but I cannot guess at what you want us to accomplish! Then, if you stated what you want and we do what you have written, then Jake should be graded accordingly! The frustration and the tears have been massive around here...for him and me!

So, I would covet your prayers. For myself and Jake. I know we both want him to have a fantastic 6th grade year.

Miche Girls New Website!

2009-09-19T10:53:00.000-07:00

It has been a crazy weekend already! We are Miche all over the place!

We have parties this weekend and have also managed to launch our website! We would love for you to check it out!

We decided that this would be a good time to give away a few things...so, the first 10 people to fill out the 'Contact Miche Girls' form will win a $5 gift certificate to use toward the purchase of a Good, Better or Best Bundle from Miche Girls!

Also, if you book a party via the contact form, we will enter you in a drawing to win one of the brand new purse hooks! Remember, a party can be either in home or catalog. So, if you don't live in my area and want to have a party, we can take care of that too!

Hop on over and check out the site...we are quite proud!

Hill Shade Update

2009-09-18T21:38:00.000-07:00

I cannot say it as well as she, so just head on over and read her post.

I think she and her family are amazing...but I think I have said that already!

Miche Girls!

2009-09-16T21:29:00.000-07:00

Check out these great new shells!

The Big Bag is due out in the next month, so if you have been holding out for that...the wait is almost over!

Lastly, my partner and I are working on getting our own website! I will let you know when it is up and running...

(btw, if you have no idea what I am talking about, check it out here. Just remember, this is not my site, if you are interested in purchasing a bag and shells, you can contact me at cbowren at michebagshows dot com. I will ship anywhere!)

R.I.P. Patrick

2009-09-14T20:00:00.000-07:00

A sad day in Hollywood...

Patrick Swayze has lost his battle with cancer...

and we have lost a great actor.

Keeping Tabbs

2009-09-13T17:54:00.000-07:00

Team Tabb mom has started a blog.

What a great way to keep up with the babies!

Hop on over and show her some bloggy love!

Never Forget...

2009-09-11T09:57:00.000-07:00

I will never forget!

I pray for these families...for peace, for strength, for endurance, for PRIDE!

God Bless ALL the victims of the 9-11 attacks!

God Bless America!

Pimpin' the Park

2009-09-05T11:35:00.001-07:00

How cute is this precious button?

Christine made it so people like me could tell people like you about her great family's new adventure!

Go check it out!

I wish I were half the woman she is!!

What To Do, What To Do...

2009-08-31T09:37:00.000-07:00

I really want to remodel my kitchen!

I really don't know where the money would come from.

I am up for all options.

Any thoughts?

Educational Giveaway

2009-08-28T12:17:00.000-07:00

There are some great things being given away over here. They are randomline products. So cute!

Go check them out!

Multitude of Multiples

2009-08-28T08:48:00.000-07:00

Team Tabb will be one of the featured families on a TLC special titled 'Multitude of Multiples'. This show followed 3 families that just wanted one more child and were blessed with multiples. The Tabbs are the quad family. There is also a quints family and a sextups family.

Please tune in this Sunday at 7 central on TLC to see this family (and the others) as they progress from pregnancy to birth!

Need Your Opinion

2009-08-25T18:15:00.000-07:00

So, I have followers here, but not on Kaylee's blog...

...so I am coming here to ask you to visit over there and offer your opinion on this situation.

In Case You're Wondering...

2009-08-24T06:33:00.000-07:00

...my son started (public) middle school today.

...my daughter started ballet today.

It's a day of firsts around here!

*sniff*

Our Day with Christine

2009-08-20T14:21:00.000-07:00

I told you last week that the kids and I were off to help Christine and family.

Well, my intentions were good!

The kids and I did trek down, wore our paint clothes, rolled our sleeves up...but Christine had other ideas!

You see, at this point, she had been working her tail off for the last 2 weeks. She wanted to sit and visit. So, we had a great time catching up in real life (as opposed to blog life). We talked about our families (we both have biological/adopted, multi-racial children), our husbands and their jobs, the move that her family recently made, and much more. It was a great chat.

The kids enjoyed running thru the RV park with her children, riding bikes up and down the big hill, playing with make-up and nail polish and playing DS...although, I think they liked the Krispy Kremes I brought the best! All the kids had a great time.

I even had the privilege of meeting her in-laws (who were so kind as to bring lunch for everyone!)!

Now, don't get me wrong, I so enjoyed chatting with Christine all day (after all, don't think we had seen each other in about 15 years), but I truly enjoyed the quietness of the park. I just kept sitting there commenting on how quiet it was. I could actually hear nature sounds and not cars honking and sirens blaring! I kept looking at the nature...the field across the street, the HUGE grasshoppers on the tree and the beautiful birds that were flitting about! What a peaceful existence!

I came home and asked my husband if we could purchase an RV...just so we could go chill out at Hill Shade!

For more about our day, hop on over and read Christine's take...

Banana-Sour Cream Cake

2009-08-17T18:11:00.000-07:00

Don't get me wrong, I love banana bread, but I recently found something else to do with bananas that are just too ripe! So, I decided it needed to be a Tempt My Tummy Tuesday post (my great friends Lisa and Lana host this carnival!)

Banana-Sour Cream Cake

For Cake:

1 pkg yellow cake mix

3 eggs

1 cup mashed bananas (about 3)

1 cup sour cream

1/4 cup oil

Heat oven to 350. Beat cake mix, eggs, bananas, sour cream and oil with mixer on low until just moistened. Scrape bottom of bowl. Beat on medium for 2 minutes.

Pour into greased and floured 13x9 pan. Bake 35 minutes or until tests done. Cool completely on wire rack.

For Frosting:

1 8 oz pkg cream cheese, softened

1 stick butter, softened

1 16 oz pkg powdered sugar (about 4 cups)

1 cup walnuts, finely chopped

Beat cream cheese and butter with mixer on medium until blended. Gradually add sugar, beating well after each addition. Frost cooled cake. Sprinkle with chopped walnuts.

Refrigerate leftovers.

I had some happy people in my family when I whipped this tasty treat up! Yum-o!

Wal-Mart Sucks

2009-08-17T13:43:00.000-07:00

Ok...well, not Wal-Mart (although, I do hate shopping there), but the people who shop there do!

So, school starts one week from today. For those of you who might be new to my blog, I have home-schooled Jake for the past 2 years. He is going back to public school in one week. So, we spent the weekend doing all the things I haven't had to do for 2 years...buying school clothes and school supplies.

The day started out pretty uneventful. We went to Sketchers (I love their deals - 4 pair of shoes for $107!) and then to the dance store (Kaylee starts ballet on Monday, too), then to Old Navy...we were truckin' along! Then, to the dreaded Wal-mart.

Now, everything that is in me hates to go to Wal-Mart...too many people, not a clean store...I just hate it. I *almost* went to HEB for school supplies...why did I not listen to myself? Ugh!

I have a habit when I shop. I ALWAYS (well, almost always, obviously) put my purse where the child seat is and buckle it in. Seriously, I mean, wrap the seat belt around the handle of the purse and buckle it. However, Saturday, Kaylee wanted to sit in the seat and so I dropped my purse into the back of the basket.

BIG MISTAKE!!!

So, there we are...all 4 of us...feeling really good about what we have accomplished...trekking over to the school supply section. There are a bizillion people in the school supply section! Everyone is grabbing crap off the shelves, bumping into each other, yelling at their kids. It is crazy! My family is dividing and conquering...read the list, go find the item, come back and drop it into the cart. I don't remember what I was looking for, but I turned to pick it up and the moment I turned around, I knew something wasn't right. I look in the back of the basket and see my purse wide open! I knew immediatly my wallet was gone!

I then start looking for David, who is off finding his school supply. We find each other and I tell him my wallet is gone. Now, at this point, we have probably been in the store a total of 15 minutes. He asks if I am sure I didn't leave it in the car and tells me he is going to check. I responded and asked him to give me his wallet so I could start calling the bank and the credit card company because I knew it was missing.

I was on the phone with the bank within 5 minutes of me realizing my wallet was missing. In this short amount of time, the bank told me that the idiots had already checked out of Wal-Mart TWICE! AMAZING!! She stopped the usage within a few minutes of me being on the phone with her. Then, as we were talking, within about 5 minutes, they were trying to use the card at HEB grocery store! CRAZY! Thank God she had already cut the card off! That was kind of sweet, actually! I loved it theat the idiots already knew that I knew! HA!

Once we called the police, called the credit card company and the bank, we went to talk to a manager at Wal-Mart. When I left my information for her, she told me that I was the 4th wallet reported stolen that day. WHAT???? Do you think someone should be working security in the school supply section?? (Guess not!)

So, then we went to HEB to talk to a manager about the charges that the idiots made there. You see, when they couldn't use the debit card, they started using my credit card...before I could get that call in, they had racked up $600 at HEB. I spoke with the manager about what had happened and gave her the times of the charges. She looked them up and discovered they had purchased gift cards...4 separate transactions, minutes apart, all for gift cards (why does this not red flag the system as suspicious activity?).

So, now I have spent the day getting a new drivers license and new social security cards for myself and the kids. I am so over the money part of this...I could actually care less that they stole my cash (of which I usually have none, but actually had $60 on Saturday) and my credit cards. I can put a stop to those things. I am really hating the fact that my drivers license and social security card is floating around out there somewhere...and those of my children! (Not to worry, we joined Life Lock Saturday night, but what a huge pain!)

So, all of this to say, 'Go with your gut!' I so wish I would have listened to myself and gone to HEB or locked my purse in the child seat like I usually do! I could just kick myself.

Lesson learned!

Away For the Day

2009-08-14T05:08:00.000-07:00

My kids and I have stepped away from the computer for the day.

We have gone here to help her. I expect it to be a day of laughing, learning and helping!

We will update you when we get back!

A Food Giveaway Too!

2009-08-13T17:06:00.000-07:00

Go here and check it out!

I love free stuff!

I Love a Good Giveaway

2009-08-13T16:56:00.001-07:00

Here's another one...a pair of Switchflops (it's like Miche for shoes!) at Frugal and Fabulous!

Another Great Giveaway!

2009-08-13T16:40:00.000-07:00

Over at The Mom Maven, she is having a great giveaway.

She is giving away a Little Tikes Americana Table and Chairs Activity Set. All Children's Furniture is donating it for the giveaway. All Children's Furniture sells everything from kids furniture to bedding and even toys.

Go check it out and see if you can win!

Team Tabb Update

2009-08-11T20:55:00.000-07:00

Logan, Landon, Leila

Just stole this precious photo and update off of Facebook.

The babies have reached the 4 month old milestone!

Mama took Team Tabb to the pediatrician today...

Landon is 12 lb, 3 oz

Logan is 10 lbs even

Leila is 8 lb 10 oz

Amazing for little monkeys that were about a pound at birth.

Praise God from Whom All Blessings Flow!

And The Winner Is...

2009-08-10T07:39:00.001-07:00

My 11 year old number picker picked a number between 1 and 24. He chose number 10!

~LL~ is the winner of the super cute ladybug album!

Congratulations!

Smelly Washer Giveaway

2009-08-10T07:31:00.000-07:00

There is another giveaway here.

If you have a dirty washer or clothes that are coming out of the wash with a slight mildew smell, this one is for you!

Have fun!

Give Aways Everywhere!

2009-08-09T18:39:00.000-07:00

Check this one out!

Great Giveaways Going On!

2009-08-09T17:24:00.000-07:00

Hello People Who Like Free Stuff,

Just wanted you to know that there are some great give-aways going on at Women-prenuers Galore.

One is for children's clothes. Check it out here.

She is also giving away some soap. Check it out here.

This blog is giving away a cute clutch purse. Check it out here.

Speaking of giveaway, don't miss mine! It ends tonight at midnight.

Government Run Healthcare? No, Thank You!

2009-08-06T09:53:00.000-07:00

I am totally against it!

If you think the insurance companies are bad, wait 'til you have some Democrat telling you what you can and cannot have done!

I have a friend who works in the auto sales industry and he says that 'Cash for Clunkers' is a nightmare! He says his company has traded many clunkers and cannot get their reimbursement from your dear president. Also, he made the observation that the clunkers can only be traded to those companies that have been bailed out. Hmmm...interesting thought! So, his comments to me solidify the statement below. You can read the entire article here.

"I look at this health care plan and I see nothing that is about health or about care. What I see is a bureaucratic nightmare, senator. Medicaid is broke, Medicare is broke, Social Security is broke and you want us to believe that a government that can't even run a cash for clunkers program is going to run one-seventh of our U.S. economy? No sir, no," she said.

I cannot even imagine this bunch of idiots running my healthcare. No, thank you!

UGH!!! Really?!?!?!?!

2009-08-03T19:31:00.000-07:00

Don't you have it when you erase the pics from the camera before you download them to your computer?!?! Can't believe I did that!

I would have some really great before and after photos of the playroom rearrange...but...

Trust me, it looks really good!

(BTW...don't forget about my giveaway. See the previous post.)

My First Giveaway!

2009-08-01T18:22:00.000-07:00

I am pretty sure my readership went up a few weeks ago (long story, not going into it, but you newbies know who you are ;-) ). I thought I would do my very first giveaway now that more people are coming to read.

So, here is what I am giving away:

A precious ladybug photo album.

I originally got this when we were adopting Kaylee. It is precious, but I do not do 'paper pictures'. I am a digital girl. Every photo that has ever been taken of my kids is saved on a disk somewhere, not on paper. Therefore, this sweet little photo album does me no good.

The album is still in its protective cover. It holds 200 4x6 photos.

If you would like to enter the giveaway, here is what you can do:

1. Leave a comment (1 entry into the giveaway)

For Extra Entries:

2. Blog about my giveaway and link me up, then come back and leave a comment telling me you did so (1 entry into the giveaway)

3. Tweet or update your FB status with a link about the giveaway, then come back and leave a comment telling me you did so (1 entry into the giveaway)

4. Become a follower of my blog - over there in the left-hand column, then leave me a comment telling me you did so (1 entry into the give-away)

5. If you are already a follower, leave me a comment and tell me so (1 entry into the give-away)

You may do any or all of these to be entered in the drawing. You could be entered up to 4 times!

* Remember* Leave a comment on this post for each thing you do. I will pick the winner from the comments section OF THIS POST!

I will accept comments until August 9th at midnight.

On Monday, August 10th, I will use my little random number picker to pick the winner.

I am so excited about my first giveaway! I can't wait to see who wins!

Good Luck!

My New Ride

2009-07-28T05:53:00.000-07:00

Hubby got tired of pouring money into my previous car. This is what I got instead of an oil change and a tire rotation...

We Got Flocked!

2009-07-22T20:03:00.000-07:00

Tuesday morning my husband woke up to take the dog out front and found a few visitors...

Apparently one of the private schools in town has a unique way of raising monies for their teachers to attend a conference every year!

My good friend decided we needed a good laugh and paid to have our yard flocked! So funny!

Not to worry...I have paid it forward...to her! I may not have a job when it is all said and done, but it will be worth the laugh!!!

Fed the Homeless

2009-07-20T07:33:00.000-07:00

I finally got to give one of these away the other day!

Miche, My Love

2009-07-18T11:54:00.000-07:00

I told you a while back that I love the Miche Bag. It is a great concept and very well executed!

I have been talking to people about my love of the Miche Bag for almost a year now. I have sent well over a dozen people to the website to purchase their bag and shells.

Well, my girl and I decided that we have sold so many of these purses to other people that it was time to make some money of our own. So, in May, we became Miche Bag representatives.

I would love to share with you why I love the product or any other information you might be interested in about the bag. You can contact me at cbowren (at) michebagshows (dot) com

The Miche Bag

2009-07-17T13:17:00.001-07:00

More news coming soon!

I Just Don't Get It

2009-07-16T20:21:00.000-07:00

Let me start by saying that I LOVE a bargain! I mean, super-puffy-heart LOVE a bargain!

Now, that being said, I DO NOT understand the Barnes and Noble 'savings card'.

I don't go to Barnes and Noble often. I usually borrow the book I want to read...either from a friend or a library. There are a few books that I want to own...like from this series or this one, so, I occasionally find myself in a book store.

Every time I go in there and make a purchase, the ever so helpful clerk says, 'Would you like to save 10% today by applying for our savings card?' and every time, I respond, 'Is it free yet?' to which they normally respond, 'uh...no...it's $25 a year.' Then, I take them on a friendly back-and-forth banter that usually covers 'nothing is free', 'but Borders has a free rewards program', 'our savings is better', 'I won't pay to save money' and so forth.

So, tonight I went to B&N to meet my cousin (whom I reconnected with thru FB). She is enthralled, like most (except me) with the Twilight series and wants to get the 3rd one. We have coffee, do some looking and head to the check out. I have found a Christmas gift for a few family members and so I have some things to purchase. I get to the check-out before my cousin and the aforementioned conversation ensues between myself and the clerk. My cousin is just chuckling under her breath. Then, she checks out and HAS THE CARD!!! Now, she is all proud of the $1.99 that she saved on her purchase. I look at her and say, '$1.99??? Are you kidding me?? You paid $25 for the card! It will take you forever to make your money back.' She says, 'But I save on every purchase I make. You just made a purchase and didn't save anything.' WHAT??? Then, her clerk (different than mine) chimes in and says, 'You only have to spend $25 a month to make the $25 you paid.' WHAT???

Now, does this sound crazy to anyone but me? You pay for a card and after you make $250 in purchases, you break even?? Does no one understand that you have to buy over $250 a year to actually save money? I homeschooled for 2 years and did not buy $250 in books at B&N! I just don't understand how people don't get that! I don't think their own employees get that.

Like I said, I like a bargain, but I think this is a scam!

Palin Explains Her Resignation

2009-07-07T14:04:00.000-07:00

Where I Come From...

2009-07-05T08:47:00.000-07:00

I want to use this post to tell you a little more about me and where I come from. It will be a long post, so if you are interested, keep reading. If not, feel free to find something else that interests you on the vast world wide web.

Let's just jump in with both feet...

I come from a broken, abusive , alcoholic home. My 'parents' (I will explain that later) divorced when I was 4. So, I am either with my mother, who was verbally and physically abusive, or my father, who is a {very active} alcoholic. We moved A LOT! At least once a year, if not more. If I had wanted to put roots down and share the secrets of our home, I would have had to trust quickly and share before we moved to the next place and I had to start all over again. Although, trusting, sharing and telling the truth to anyone whom I met would have been taboo. We didn't talk about the huge elephant in the middle of our house...better to keep up the front.

We lied...fudged the truth...skirted the issues...ALL THE TIME! We would buy new clothes and not tell our step-dad, we would go to the movies and lie about our age, we would go to church and not tell anyone what was happening at home, we would never talk about the alcoholism or the abuse. Just pretend it didn't exist...that way we seemed normal. But I knew we weren't. I knew from going to school and to friend's houses...we weren't normal!

I never understood why we kept everything so secret. Why not tell someone? They might help us. Why not? Why not? But, I didn't tell people...because my parents told me not to...and I ALWAYS did what I was told. After all, they might not like me...or worse, bring on more abuse, if I didn't. The great thing is that at the age of 8, God used an aunt to tell me about His safety and saving grace. I know He is the only reason I did not spin out of control and continue the cycle of lies, alcoholism and abuse.

Well, this perfect little facade came crashing down one day. I was 20 years old. I was 'home' from college for the summer (I was actually at my ex-step-mom's house - yeah, let that soak in - because I did not want to spend the summer with either of my biological parents). She and I had then, and still do to this day, a super close relationship! My step-mom (I hate that term, so let's call her mom) was in Glorietta, NM for a retreat. I am home alone. The phone rings. It is my (biological) mother. She has recently been arguing with my grandmother about a secret that she learned about from a cousin (see, these lies go WAY BACK) and she needed to come clean about something. She calls and says, 'I need to tell you something before your grandmother decides to tell you. Your father is not your father. You are the product of an affair.' Yup! That's me...the 20 year old who is all of a sudden a bastard child! So, my world is spinning. I am in a fetal position, crying my eyes out, trying to figure out what I do with this information. I am questioning who I am and who I ever claimed to be. What's more, I am trying to figure out if she is right. Could she be mistaken? Couldn't he be my father and she just THINKS he isn't? And if he isn't my father, why would she allow me to spend 20 years of my life putting up with his alcoholism and all the hurt that brought on? I mean, would she really let me waste that much time and energy? It was at this time in my life that I decided I would NOT continue the lies. These were not my lies and I didn't have to pretend they didn't exist. I needed to make other people own their lies.

I begin bringing these issues into the light. I begin asking the questions that my family doesn't want to answer. I begin seeking counseling for my co-dependency. Man, is my family mad during this time. After all, things are more comfortable in the dark. We don't have to answer the tough questions in the dark. We don't have to be responsible for our actions in the dark. We don't have to tell the truth in the dark. We don't have to dig up all the stuffed feelings in the dark. These were very tumultuous times between my family and me. They liked it better when I was the 'Yes Girl' and just did what I was told. But I was SO over that...all that got me was heartache and I didn't want that anymore...I wanted the truth and answers!! (I will say that now, my family is open and honest about these times and issues. Together we have learned that hiding the truth only makes the hurt worse.)

So, I have carried this philosophy to all aspects of my life. I am not a 'Yes Girl'. I am the one who asks the hard questions and tells the hard truth. I bring things to the light. If something doesn't seem right to me, I will dig down and find out why. I cannot spend any more days of my life not talking about the big elephant in the middle of the room. If you want a pat answer or someone to just push your agenda, then don't come to me. If you want to get down to the bare bones and get real answers, I am your gal.

Now, I know that my Christian friends could find scripture to support their reasoning on why I should tip-toe around the real issues. I could find scripture to support why I shouldn't. Let me just say that none of us are perfect, just forgiven. So, if I am 'out of line', my Maker will speak with me about it when I am before His Throne of Grace. On this earth, I am called to be concerned about my Lord, my family, and speaking the truth...even if it hurts (and most of the time, it does. This is how Satan gets his digs in...he loves for us to keep it in the dark and let it fester!)

Fast forward to today...I created this blog to share my thoughts (hence the name). Some thoughts you will like, some thoughts you won't. Some thoughts will be funny, some thoughts will hurt. One thing I assure you...the thoughts will be the truth as I see it. I know I am not for everyone...nobody is. Feel free to read...or not. Feel free to comment...or not. I would love to have a healthy, 2-sided conversation about any of my posts. I will not, however, be lectured AT. I have 5 parents who raised me (even if you don't like the final outcome) so I don't need another one and I have a conscience and a Guide, so I don't need those either. I am here to share things as I see them, not as you would like me to see them.

I hope you stay on to enjoy the ride. I think it will be fun!

Deep Thoughts...

2009-07-04T05:07:00.000-07:00

My aunt sent this tidbit to me in an email. It explains a lot of where I come from..

Be who you say you are.. and say what you feel .. because those that matter, don't mind ... and those that mind, don't matter!

Palin...resigning????

2009-07-03T17:41:00.000-07:00

I can't believe it!

I so wish it had been a headline about Obama resigning!

I can dream, can't I?

I hope this is in preparations for her heading to the White House...

Again, I can dream, can't I?

Walk Down Memory Lane

2009-06-29T13:52:00.000-07:00

This past weekend, my college roommate came to town. She moved to Michigan 11 years ago and I haven't seen her since. She is a teaching leader for BSF, so she came in for a week of training and got to stay until Sunday morning. She spent Monday thru Friday afternoon at the BSF encampement. I picked her up Friday afternoon and she stayed at the house until Sunday morning.

We had a great time. Friday night, we had dinner out with just college friends. A few of our closest group came to spend the evening with us.

Saturday, we had the friends and their families to our house for dinner.

There were a few foods that she said she missed from living up north...brisket, tex-mex, Longhorn (a local restaurant) hamburgers and breakfast tacos. Well, we got 3 of the 4 in for her!

Here are some pictures of Saturday evening...

More on Shaylee

2009-06-26T05:20:00.000-07:00

For those of you following the story on my cousin's daughter, please take a moment to read,

Miracles in the Making. Please be warned...the images of my little cousin are graffic!

Thanks for your prayers!

Freedom of Speech

2009-06-25T21:23:00.000-07:00

Was this right taken away from Americans and I didn't get the memo?

I'm just askin'...

It's Gone!

2009-06-24T13:22:00.001-07:00

WOW! That's all I can say right now...wow!

Once again, amazed by church people!

WARNING! Not for the Faint of Heart!

2009-06-16T19:45:00.000-07:00

Here is an update on my cousins daughter, Shaylee.

I know the economy is tight, but I also know that our Lord provides! This family would be truly blessed if you could make any dontation. NOTHING is too small!

Be warned...the images are graffic!

Team Tabb is home!

2009-06-15T11:44:00.000-07:00

I got me some baby lovin today! All the babies came home this past Friday! They are PRECIOUS!!

Please pray for this precious family! They just brought 2 babies home while already having 2 older and one baby at home. You can imagine how incredibly tiring this would be. Please pray for rest and peace!

I will post pictures as soon as possible.

Need Your Prayers

2009-06-06T20:43:00.000-07:00

My cousin's 3 year-old daughter was attacked by a pit bull Thursday night. She lost over 60% of her scalp and her eyelids...and now infection is setting in on her remaining scalp. It is a LONG story as to how this happened, but CPS is trying to determine if my aunt, the dog's owner or both are at fault.

Please pray for my cousin, Laci, her baby that was attacked, Shaylee, and my aunt, Charlie.

This situation is VERY bad...

One Down, Two to Go!

2009-06-06T13:03:00.000-07:00

Team Tabb is slowly arriving home!

Landon came home last Tuesday. I was able to see him shortly on Friday and MAN IS HE PRECIOUS!!

Please continue your prayers for Leila and Logan.

Summer Fun Photo Sessions

2009-06-04T19:37:00.001-07:00

Call Love Stories at 210-490-6761 to book your special photo session.

E-Party Follow Up

2009-06-01T12:22:00.000-07:00

Sorry it has been so long...

Head to Kaylee's blog to see what freebies I got.

Please consider hosting a party. Both of the Plum Precious Families have been effected by the economy...both husbands laid off. They need income. It really is easy on the hostess. Please leave a comment if you are willing to host a party and get great products in return.

Jon and Kate...

2009-05-27T21:19:00.000-07:00

is anyone else sick of hearing their names?

I'm just sayin'...

New Curtains

2009-05-16T07:36:00.000-07:00

I have been saving for a while for new curtains in my living room. I found them quite awhile ago, but...as many or you know, I have champagne taste on a beer budget, so I had to save and save.

I think they look fabulous!

What do you think?

Before:

Living Room

Dining Room

After:

Living Room

Dining Room

These rooms are 2 rooms, but they have no wall in between, so I wanted the rooms to coordinate. I think they turned out really well!

Now, if you look really closely in the before pictures, you will see the sconces that are holding the valances (I know, hard to tell because all the bland color blends together).

My mother-in-law had the brilliant idea of using them as small sconce shelves on this tiny wall in the dining room (we also spray painted some of them gold for her house and mine. When I get those up, I will post those too.)

I think those turned out fantastic too!

Wordless Wednesday - French Pedicure (Well, Sorta)

2009-05-13T15:26:00.000-07:00

Playing Catch Up

2009-05-11T14:35:00.000-07:00

Now that my E-Party is concluded, I feel the need to catch you up on some things that I left hanging...

1. As you probably know, I have spent the better part of 16 months serving on our search committee for Director of Preschool Ministries. Well, I am happy to say that yesterday, our church voted...and approved out candidate! I am so excited that Tobey is soon to be a part of the FBCSA Staff! I can't wait to see the exciting things that will happen in the Preschool area in the years to come!

2. Team Tabb
Update Given By Jennifer on May 13:

Landon successfully nursed on me for the first time this morning!!! It wasn't a lot, but it kept him satisfied until his next feeding! And, yesterday he finished his entire bottle both times it was offered to him! YEA!! He wants to come home! :-) (And, I suspect he WILL be home within a couple of weeks--max.)

Leila and Logan were slightly less than motivated to nurse or take a bottle this a.m. However, yesterday Leila finished half of her bottle in the morning and the whole bottle last night! Logan, is just slackin'! He has taken a few swallows from the bottle, but he doesn't really care to work for food apparently. ;-)

Landon was 5lbs 2.1oz last night---my chunky monkey. Logan reached 3lbs 15.5oz (Landon's birth weight), and Leila was 3lbs, 13.5oz. They're moving right along.

The doctor said he expects them all to be home within a month! WOW!

(formerly known as the Quad Squad) are doing very well. Unless you have been hiding under a rock and not reading my blog, you know that I have a dear friend that recently gave birth to quads. Unfortunatly (to us on this earth, anyway), little Ella Faith is sitting at the throne of Jesus. The other three are still in the hospital, but no oxygen, no PIC lines. Logan is even in an open air crib already! Amazing! So, what's left? The other 2 have to be able to hold their body temps and all of them need to learn to suck/swallow/breath so they can get theri feedings by mouth. God is AWESOME!

Landon

Leila

Logan

3. You know how much I LOVE this bag...well, some great things are on the horizon! My girl and I are working on some things and we will let you know as soon as we can!

4. The E-Party went really well. There were 6 orders that I know of...from people that would not otherwise know about Plum Precious Gals (which is the point of an E-Party) so that is great in my book. Do not know what I earned yet...or how much my E-Party donated towards adoption, but I will let you know as soon as I have those numbers.

Just thought I would tie up some loose ends today. Have a great one!